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"Violette Toussaint is the caretaker at a cemetery in a small town in Bourgogne, France. Traversing the grounds by unicycle, tending to her many gardens—and being present for the intimate, often humorous confidences of visitors—Violette’s life follows the predictable rhythms of mourning. But then Violette’s routine is disrupted by the arrival of Julien Sole, the local police chief."
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I don't know about you, but I express myself so much better when I can write my thoughts out. In the moment, when I'm talking to someone face-to-face, I often feel like I'm floundering trying to articulate what I want to say. If you're the same way, you know how hard it can be to try to have a conversation with someone about faith. When I read Tactics by Gregory Koukl it felt like it was a book written just for me. It gives such good, practical, insightful, and grace-filled advice on how to effectively speak to people about our Christian faith.
Koukl's approach isn't really about winning arguments. It's about engaging in thoughtful, respectful dialogue with another person. He emphasizes being a good ambassador for Christ by showing kindness, humility, and genuine curiosity toward the person you're speaking to. It's so easy to forget that when we're trying prove a point.
In the book you're given tools, such as the Columbo method (where you ask questions to draw out someone's perspective), that are simple, yet effective. Reading through the book felt like a series of light-bulb moments for me. Talking to people who don't agree with you doesn't have to be hard! And the tactics don't even have to be used exclusively when you're discussing faith or theology. They work for any scenario where you're speaking to someone you disagree with.
Maybe the best part about Tactics is how incredibly approachable it is. Koukl's tone is warm and encouraging. This isn't a book written for scholars. It's a book written for anyone who desires to talk about God, but struggles to do so in an effective and God-honoring way.
I love how Koukl emphasizes that our conversations don't have to "close the deal" so to speak. We're not going to convince everyone. We're not going to have all the answers to every question. It's okay to tell the person you aren't sure, and that you'll get more information to continue at a later time. It's okay for the conversation to end with no resolution and to never even see the person again. Because you've planted the seed, you got the person thinking, and your job is done. That realization lifted such a burden from me.
Whether you're new to sharing your faith or you've been doing it for decades, I think there's something for everyone with the pages of Tactics. There is so much amazing advice, and it's just generally a wonderful encouragement for us as Christians.
Have you read Tactics? I’d love to hear how you’ve applied some of the ideas in your own conversations!
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Expiration Dates by Rebecca Serle seemed like it had all the makings of a book I could get into. The premise was unique. There was the promise of emotional depth and not just surface-level romance. Unfortunately, while the concept was intriguing, the execution of the story fell flat for me in the end.
The story revolves around Daphne, a woman living in LA who receives a mysterious note before every romantic relationship she enters into. The note is simple. It contains the name of the guy, and how long their relationship will last. Then one day she gets a note with just a name. No expiration date. So is this it, the guy she's going to be with forever? It's a clever premise that raises some big questions. How much control do we really have in our lives? Can we trust our own hearts? What happens if we work against the "destiny" set out for us. I was hoping the story would dive deeper into those waters, but I found that it really only skimmed the surface of those themes.
One of my biggest challenges with the story was the relationship between Daphne and Hugo, her one time boyfriend turned best friend. It's obvious they are very much still in love with each other. But they won't act on it because the paper had already given them their expiration date, and that was that. This could have been an incredible source of tension and conflict in the story, reading about their challenges trying to overcome that pesky destiny. Instead Daphne and Hugo just throw their hands up, like oh well, it was never meant to be. It was unbelievable enough to be just the tiniest bit infuriating.
As far as the rest of the romance goes in the book, it was fine. Nothing so special it made you long for what the couple had. There were a couple of mildly "spicy" scenes that weren't overly graphic, but graphic enough I wished they hadn't been included.
In the end I found that 'Expiration Dates' just meandered, until it finally ended the way most people will probably expect it to. But it didn't really feel satisfying. It felt shallow and predictable. I wanted more depth, substance, and tension.
If you've read this one, I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments! Maybe you picked up on something interesting in the story that I missed?
Stott doesn't shy away from the hard stuff, for sure. In the book he wrestles with deep questions about why Jesus had to die, what the cross means to us as Christians, and how it literally transforms lives. This is definitely not a leisurely read, but don't let that scare you off. While the theology might be weighty, Stott writes in a way that feels approachable.
Perhaps what struck me the most about this book is that it's not just about understanding doctrine. What you read will speak to your heart. It will draw you closer to Jesus as you begin to more fully understand the work that was done on the cross. Each chapter seemed to leave me more in awe of the depth of God's love for us.
If you're ready for a book that will challenge and encourage you, while deepening your understanding of the gospel, please pick this one up. Reading it bolstered by faith in what left like a like-changing way, and I hope it can be that for many others.
Have you read The Cross of Christ? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below! What passages spoke to you the most?